Not a secret. Just difficult to figure out.
Isn’t it funny how we always think we are maxed out, then time goes by and we realize we weren’t maxed out at all, in fact we often wish we could go back to that point. I know as someone who has undiagnosed ADHD this happens way too often. Before having my son I knew I had free time but I really had a much smaller threshold for stress than I do now – trust me!
Now I am able to balance all the things, from being a present mother to building a business by myself from scratch to keeping up with the house, and of course having enough energy for myself and to be a compassionate wife. We as a community are doing better saying it’s hard, and it is but what is harder is not doing all of these things. The reality is if one of those things is going to fall off it is time for myself. Then immediately after is going to be everything but being a wife and a mother…of course.
In today’s world we have so much access to what others are doing, we are in a constant cycle of if that worked for her I should try that, without even giving enough time to see what works. We as (most commonly) neurodivergent people do this with EVERYTHING!!
I propose this – if you want to stick around and see what works for me and millions of people overtime it’s this – write it down. Time block. Make a schedule. No joke. I once had a mentor tell me, “If you haven’t mastered your calendar, you haven’t gotten through the learning curve.” I just love that so much, it applies to so much.
My Gift To You
I want to share a resource as well as tips for how to overcome time obstacles. My goal is to launch a resource once a month. Resource topics will range from photography help (posing guide, confidence boost, etc.), branding tips, mom lifesavers, all the way to I use this in life I bet you can too!
I will launch a resource the THIRD Thursday of every month. I will post on Pinterest, Instagram, and on my website so be sure to follow along. That will start this week, I am so excited to stop gatekeeping and be able to share with you!
Don’t Miss It
Be sure to follow platforms so you don’t miss it. Even if this month doesn’t solve a problem you have. Something will for sure!
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